Businesses talk a lot about customer loyalty. It makes sense: A person you can count on to buy from you again and again is more valuable than one who disappears after the first transaction.
But for many businesses, building customer loyalty means creating loyalty programs that reward repeat behavior. Buy our coffee 10 times and your 11th cup is free. But are your customers loyal because they want that free cup of Joe, or are they loyal because they truly enjoy your product and their interactions with you?
Companies need to face the new realities of the customer economy. Customer relationships matter more than ever, because your future revenue depends on those relationships lasting well beyond a single transaction.
In addition, the voice of the customer has never been louder; your customers have the power to bring you more business—or drive it away—via recommendations or rants that are amplified by social channels like Yelp.
Customer service interactions are becoming your primary means of creating true customer relationships. To be a successful business today, you must understand how relationships actually work, and how to build them. While the ways in which you do this may be specific to your business, here are some fundamentals about relationship-building that are universal:
1. Dont overestimate your importance in the customer’s life
You are not the center of the universe; you must listen to and consider the other person. The same is true of your organization. A person is not your customer, even when they’re buying your product. It is a privilege for you to be in their life, not the other way around.
2. Consider the entire customer experience
Organizations, unlike people, tend to have terrible memories. The customer who buys a product in your store is the same one who writes in when that product breaks. Those two moments are connected, and you must recognize this.
3. Recognize the right relationships and adapt
Not everyone you meet will be your best friend. Some people are great dinner party guests, some are lifelong friends, and others just get a wave when you see them in the neighborhood. The goal is to have the right relationship with each individual. This requires becoming skilled at reading people. Figure out how to accept and improve the relationships you have, and say no when a relationship is unhealthy.
4. Be something actual humans can relate to
Given the choice between a faceless monolith and an organization that communicates directly and simply, consumers will always choose the latter. It is not just okay for your organization to have personality, it is vital. When there is an incredible amount of choice in the market, personality helps people identify which organizations they want to interact with.
5. Be transparent
People relate to organizations that are open and honest. Give your customer the information you have—good or bad. We are fighting against years of people feeling like companies are somehow screwing them over with hidden pricing and confusing return policies. The only way to establish trust and loyalty is to show your cards.
6. Empower your people to do what’s best
Allow and encourage your employees to act like people. We have been training customer service reps to act like machines—fake smiles, scripts, compulsory “have a nice days. Little mistakes or inefficiencies will inevitably occur when you allow people to make their own decisions, but the business can embrace these as the very things that make the business easier to relate to.
7. Put a face to your customers
Your customer relationships are easy to ignore when they’re the sole responsibility of your sales or support people. When you can put a face on the person who is truly frustrated, your employees realize that this could just as well be their neighbor. Make customer relationships a shared responsibility for your entire organization.
Relationships are not easy. Some will say that relationships can and should be managed. They will give you acronyms that promise to solve all your relationship troubles. But unfortunately, in business, as in life, relationships cannot be managed.
And while a business-customer relationship is not the same as a personal one, all relationships are personal on some level. When a person buys a product, they are buying the product of a group of people; when they email the organization, it is a person who responds; and when they decide whether to return to an organization again, they are one person making a decision.
Focus on that person.
A version of this post originally appeared in Fast Company‘s Leadership Now section under the headline: “Beyond Customer Loyalty Programs: 7 Ways to Build Lasting Relationships“